A Few Church Do's and Don'ts
AKA Becky's Soapbox*
*Don't mind her if you disagree. Just move on to a blog post you like. ;)
1) Don't clip your nails in church. Now, to be completely fair, I didn't actually
see the culprit. However, if I said to you, "the sound of clipping your nails" you
would know what I'm talking about...and I'm very certain it was that sound and not a 3ring binder with 10 clips... It's pretty distracting, please don't do that in church.
2) Moms, use the nursery! It's not easy to leave your child in someone else's care...but it's never going to be. I'm trying to train myself now to leave Andrew in safe places, so it will be little bit easier later (Like a week of camp where anything could happen?? Oh boy.). Also, YOU need the service. A good message, prayer, and some singing can do a world of good for the human soul. (And of course pick up a pager for a little more security ..and try to remember to turn it on...)
3) Dads, be encouraging to your wives to leave the child in the nursery. It's so hard to drop off the little one and not feel sad or guilty. Especially if your child is going through separation anxiety. Lovingly remind them that the nursery workers are expecting children to have a hard time sometimes and they will take good care of your child.
4) Wear at least a level or 2 nicer outfit than you would going to the park. It's a catch22: churches want to include everyone so they backdown on the "dress requirement"...But then, people start dressing in whatever they want and become very lax and don't take church seriously. We
NEED to take church seriously!
5) Bring a Bible you can write in and don't just use your Bible phone app (preaching to myself now- my iPhone can be waaaay too tempting to just "quick check this or that"). My brother found a really great Bible called
The Journal Bible. What a fabulous way to take notes! You will be able to use those notes again and it will be interesting to see how other sermons fit later.
6) Allow yourself to cry in church. Yesterday I was reminded again how amazingly faithful God has been in my life. The church I was in was the same one I had been dedicated in, had piano recitals in, was in Psalty the Singing Songbook musicals, Christmas Programs, V.B.S., handbells, shared mission trip stories in, listened to sermons, went to funerals of special people, had school chapel in, got married in, and now bring Andrew to. God has brought me through the sad times, the difficult times, and has lead my life into some amazingly happy times. These thoughts kept swirling in my head as I was there singing with my family sitting in the pew with me and my church family around me. So I let some tears fall. It felt so healing.
God is interested in your heart, so don't be afraid to show it to Him.
Even if it's emotional.
Me and my brother Brian (7-27-14)
*Please don't mind the bad hair day. It was fine after I fixed it. Then as soon as I got in the car to go to church, it went limp. Good times.
Wedding (7-3-11)